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Patty's avatar

Fascinating article, thank you for your wisdom! The separatio process reminds me of the process of differentiating from one’s family of origin. According to family systems theory, a low level of differentiation (or fusion) with one’s family of origin will cause problems in other relationships (particularly with our romantic partners). It’s important to engage in this deep work of “differentiation of self” in order to sustain healthier relationships.

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Molly | Bone and Mirror Tarot's avatar

Thank you for such an in depth insight into the realm of relationship and alchemy! I really see the Two of Cups and The Queen of Swords as symbolic representations of the two alchemical journeys. The Two of Cups speaks to the tension of the opposites as the watery realm of the feeling functions meet one another to create something new. The Queen of Swords wields her sword to cut away that which doesn't serve her. Thank you, thank you, thank you for this article!

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